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September 2015

Kent Calling

This is my first proper post since starting uni so prepare for a long post and lots of photos!

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New House, So New Home?

In response to The Daily Post’s writing prompt: “Home Turf.”

‘Name five things in your house that make it a home.’

My home is probably still where I spent the first 18 years of my life, with a view of a church and the beach a 20min walk away. But, I’m now a uni student (heehhee!!), which means I have two homes: my campus home and my home home. It’s been a bit nerve racking moving out and living with strangers, but it’s finally starting to feel like ‘home’.

How to Dance on Tables Without Falling Off

You’ve just started university; you’re an adult, you’re independent, you’re responsible… But are you safe? Here are some tips (many I have developed over the years, others given to me by parents and teachers) to keep you safe on a night out:

  1. Have a plan for the night – you don’t want to be wandering around at 3am unsure of exactly what club half your friends are in. Even if drunk you decides that you want to stay in a club despite everyone else sticking to the plan on leaving at a certain time you need to go with them. It’s your responsibility to stay sober enough to stick to the plan in order to keep yourself save.
  2. Ask for help – Have all of your friends’ phone numbers and call them if you get separated or need help getting away from someone. You can also ask security guards and bar staff if you or a friend gets into trouble. It’s probably best not to talk to people you don’t actually know if you are in trouble, it’s unlikely that a random drunk stranger is really that interested in helping you out.
  3. Watch your drink – This one has been drummed into every girl, and hopefully the guys too, since we started drinking. That doesn’t mean that everyone remembers it, look after your drink and your friends’ drinks; ‘all for one and one for all!’
  4. Don’t drink too much – No, you really can’t drink everyone in the club under the table. These are the best nights of your life and you’re going to want to have stories to tell about your days at university. Not being able to remember the night before will get old pretty soon, not to mention it means you’ve drunk too much and are putting yourself at risk. Also, think of all that money you’re spending on something ‘so great’ you don’t even know what happened.
  5. Don’t abandon the group of people you came out with – these might be people you know from back home or your new flatmates, it doesn’t matter; at the end of the night these are the people who are going to carry you back to your own bed.
  6. Go home – One night stands are fine and fun, but if you can barely walk and some guy/girl is trying to get you to go home with them is this really the sort of person you want to be alone with? If you’re too drunk to talk/walk/act human then just go home.
  7. Or don’t – If you decide that you are going to leave the club and head home with a new ‘friend’ then be smart; tell your friends where you are going and who you are with – I’d suggest getting a taxi with the ‘friend’ and texting a real friend the address they give to the driver (better safe than sorry). Tell them your friends you’ll text them before you go to sleep (actually do this, if you don’t they’ll think something has happened) and use a form of protection (do you really want to ask your new flatmates where the sexual health clinic is in your first week together?). Although, I would seriously suggesting bringing the ‘friend’ back to yours after reading this post by The Cambridge Diaries.
  8. Don’t get into a fight – Just because your friend is having an argument with someone who you’ve never seen before doesn’t mean you need to leap to their defence. Try to defuse the situation and get your friend out of harm’s way, but DO NOT get involved in a fight; it could result in assault charges.
  9. Stay calm – If you do get attacked then stay calm: You need to appear confident and ‘buy your time’. If you’re sure you can fight your way out of a situation then do, but if you’re unsure then don’t as it will only waste energy and could result in you getting injured. Of course, there are some simple ways of avoiding trouble: point 1, 4 and 10 are a start, but also avoid doing silly things like walking along clutching the newest iphone – alerting thieves to the exact location of something valuable increases your risk of getting a victim of crime.
  10. Know how you’re getting home – Standing on a street corner trying to flag down a taxi in the small hours of the morning isn’t fun. Book a taxi before you go out, have a designated driver, plan a walking route (public areas that are well lit). It’s always best to have a plan for the end of the night, even if it’s just to stop everyone falling out at the end of night when no one is in the mood to make decisions.

I’d also like to point out that dancing on tables is very hard to do drunk and even if you have read this post I can’t be held responsible if you do end up falling off – no matter what the title says.

New Life?

In response to The Daily Post’s writing prompt: “From the Top.”

‘If you had the chance to be reborn, would you choose to return as your present self, or would opt for a fresh start? Tell us about what motivates your choice.’

If I could be reborn I wouldn’t mind being someone else… I think. It would be fun, assuming that I could keep all of my memories and knowledge, and I wouldn’t die in some horrible way that left my loved ones devastated. I’m thinking more reincarnation once I’ve died of old age. It might be amazing to get a second chance, the chance to change things, to improve things, to do whatever I didn’t have time to do in this life. Perhaps I’d do things differently, I’d drop out of school and travel around the world in a beaten-up old van.

But I’m about to start university, and real life, so perhaps now it’s the right time to consider a completely new life!

Incy Wincy Spider

In response to The Daily Post’s writing prompt: “Phobia, Shmobia.”

‘Fears evolve over time. What is one fear you’ve conquered?’

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Day By Page

In response to The Daily Post’s writing prompt: “Daily Ritual.”

‘Think about your day. Select one of your daily rituals and explain it to us: why do you do what you do? How did you come to adopt this ritual? What happens on days when you can’t perform it?’

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Count Down To Moving Day

There’s only one week left until I’m off to university – in fact, this time next week I’ll be in my new, university bed. I’m trying not to think about how many people have slept in that bed.

EEEKKKK.

Ok, freak out over. For now.

The fact is packing your whole life into boxes and bags, and moving to a new city and away from everyone you know, is scary, it’s even worse when you know that in another 3 years you’re going to be walking away from that place and those people too.

On the note of leaving people, I had one of the best and worst days on Friday. I said goodbye to a friend that I’ve had since I joined Battle. We both left at the end of year 11 for different colleges, but we’ve remained friends, and on friday I said goodbye to her. We did it with true Hastings style: a walk through the old town, fresh doughnuts from the hut, got attacked by seagulls who wanted our doughnuts, played an 18-hole game of mini adventure golf, walked along the beach, and drank hooch in Spoons. It was great weather, a wonderful day and the perfect way to say goodbye. But the idea that I might not see her until Christmas is just awful, it’s the same with everyone that I’m leaving behind, and I feel for everyone who is in the same situation as I am, and those who have been in the position where they have had to say goodbye to everyone they know and love.

See Lots And Lots Of Little Boxes for my advice (which sort of worked for me) on buying/packing for uni.

See Blue Plasters And A Glass Of Wine and No Blue Plasters Here. And We’re Out Of Wine. for my cooking adventures.

See My Little World for a glimpse into the room I’m leaving behind.

See Where I Live (For) Now and Hoist The Colours High for a glimpse into the town I’m leaving behind.

See Out Of The Gates – Now What? and Summer Bucket List for what I’ve been doing this summer.

Say It With The Pen

In response to The Daily Post’s writing prompt: “Handwritten.”

‘When was the last time you wrote something by hand? What was it?’

The last time I wrote something by hand was last night, when I was writing a list of all the things I still have to do before the move to uni. But the last time I wrote something that really means a lot was a few months ago when I wrote a thank you card for my parents to open when I say my last goodbye before I become a real student.

The card says:

‘To Mum and DadWP_001435

Thank you for all of the support you have given me over the last 18 years. From spelling tests to being able to write an essay detailing the pros and cons of the American electoral system, you’ve always given me the support I needed to do my best. Even when I was in tears – like when I was convinced I would never pass my maths GCSE – you believed in me. Thanks for all of your faith in me and putting up with the tears and stress!

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It’s All In Your Power

In response to The Daily Post’s writing prompt: “Doubters Alert.”

‘What commonly accepted truth (or “truth”) do you think is wrong, or at least seriously doubt?  Why?’

A man said to the universe:
“Sir, I exist!”
“However,” replied the universe,
“The fact has not created in me
A sense of obligation.”
-Stephan Crane-

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